I Am I So Tired, but Can’t Sleep - Understanding Sleep Struggles – The Glow Company

Why Am I So Tired, but Can’t Sleep? Understanding Sleep Struggles

Ever had one of those days when, despite downing cups of coffee, you're dragging yourself around, barely keeping your eyes open? Yet, the moment your head hits the pillow, you're suddenly wide awake. Sound familiar? Let’s dive into why this happens and how products like CalmCarry can support your sleep journey.

Circadian Rhythm: Your Body’s Clock

Our bodies operate on a circadian rhythm, a natural 24-hour cycle that determines when we feel alert and when we feel sleepy. Managed by the brain's suprachiasmatic nucleus (SCN), it controls melatonin production, a hormone pivotal for sleep. When it’s bright outside, melatonin levels stay low. As evening approaches, they spike, peaking around 2-4 a.m. The optimal time to snooze is approximately 2 hours after this spike begins.

However, sometimes our internal clock can be out of sync, leading to a condition known as delayed sleep phase syndrome (DSPS). This is when you might find yourself feeling alert past midnight and struggling to wake up early, a common issue especially among young adults.

Tired, Sleepy, or Fatigued: Know the Difference

Dr. Winter points out that being "tired", "sleepy", and "fatigued" aren't the same. After running a marathon, you might feel fatigued but not sleepy. Sleepiness, on the other hand, is when you struggle to keep your eyes open.

Why So Tired?

There could be multiple reasons:

  • Napping: Naps are refreshing, but timing matters. Long naps or ones taken late in the day can interfere with night-time sleep.
  • Anxiety: A restless mind can hinder peaceful sleep. If you're anxious, consider our CalmCarry device, designed to alleviate anxiety, stress, and insomnia.
  • Depression: Depression and sleep issues are interconnected and can feed into each other.
  • Caffeine: Reconsider that late-afternoon coffee. Its effects can linger for hours, disrupting your sleep.
  • Screen Time: Blue light from gadgets can mess with melatonin production. Prioritize some tech-free time before bed.
  • COVID: From the stress it brings to the body's response, COVID has been linked to sleep disturbances.
  • Diet: What you eat impacts how you sleep. Some foods can promote sleep, while others might disrupt it.

Can Being Tired be Harmful?

Consistent lack of quality sleep can lead to health issues like diabetes, heart disease, obesity, and depression.

Tips to Drift Off to Dreamland

  1. Stay Consistent: Keep a regular sleep schedule.
  2. Create the Right Environment: Make your bedroom conducive for sleep - dark, quiet, and cool.
  3. Limit Stimulants: Limit caffeine intake and screen time in the evening.
  4. Manage Anxiety: Set aside "worry time" during the day and consider tools like CalmCarry for a more peaceful mind at night.

If you're still struggling with sleep, reach out to a healthcare professional. Sometimes, underlying conditions or disorders may be the culprit. And remember, while medications can offer a temporary solution, it's essential to understand and address the root cause for lasting relief.


If you find yourself consistently saying, "I'm so tired but can't sleep," you're not alone. Recognizing the factors influencing your sleep patterns is the first step. With the right strategies, like integrating the CalmCarry device into your routine, a restful night can be within reach.

About the Author: Brittany Risher is an esteemed writer and digital strategist in the health and lifestyle sector. Her work has been featured in numerous reputable publications, including Men’s Health, Women’s Health, and Yoga Journal.

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